– 关晓彤- 勇敢者- 成长- 游戏

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摆烂,打破万恶的理想主义。

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三年前的关晓彤是一个活在粉红世界的人。大约有100个芭比玩具分别摆放在她家里,她认真的为玩具配搭项链、理顺发型、挑选服装,甚至搭建玩具宫殿。关晓彤喜欢芭比,但并不是单纯的少女心,而是她那不可或缺的一份糟糕理想主义所致。

“我超爱芭比,还有美少女战士,它们代表着一份美好,就像童话一般梦幻,主题充满着美好愿望,并且结局永远让人幸福。我高中时,看了一次小美人鱼的最新版本,泪崩了几天,自那之后我完全不敢看这种悲剧电影了。”

如今,25岁的关晓彤有了新变化:不再追求过于完美和不切实际的幻想。

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A brave and timid twenty-something

 

关晓彤自曝是一位“怂鬼”,虽然她从小就演戏到老了,但她仍然不太擅长社交。“每到一次活动,我妈都得带着我去打招呼,可我就是不好意思开口,这就是怂的体现啊。”

虽然怂,但她在剧组里可就不一样了,因为在剧组,大家天天在一起生活,社交问题迎刃而解。在成都拍戏时,关晓彤和于谦成了忘年交。“我爱逛夜市,于谦大爷爱逛花鸟鱼虫市场,结果我们就成了暴走族,一路逛到天亮。大概大家可能认为我们是年龄悬殊的朋友,但是我们之间完全没有代沟,有趣的是,他管我爸叫叔叔,所以我就叫他哥哥。”

关晓彤最近在一部剧里饰演社区达人,实际上,她是剧组达人,越怂怯的就越能交到忘年交。

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关晓彤每天跟一群退休大爷大妈打交道。她观察到,那些六七十岁的大妈最让人羡慕。“只要一放舞曲,整个广场都被她们占领了。好多大妈听说我们拍戏,立马火力全开,跑来跳舞。大家身着小旗袍,头发烫着小卷,简直是精致和美丽的代表!所以我就想,等到我退休了,会不会也像她们一样活得富有活力?”

With age comes wisdom and wrinkles, but also style and grace! 

关晓彤表示,在20多岁这个年纪,她们常常会做一些又怂又勇、有些愚蠢的事情。但是,随着年龄的增长,她们逐渐变得睿智、优雅,甚至还能够拥有自己独特的风格和魅力。

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每每事后总是悔不当初,关晓彤会在她心里“复盘”自己的犯傻历程:如果当时更机智一些该多好啊……这也是为什么她始终对《曾少年》里的谢乔这个角色难以释怀。“谢乔也怂,她总是感性得不知所措,搞些傻事,但这就是她最有魅力的地方。谢乔的理想主义太强了,这种理想主义一想起来就让我心动不已啊!”

Being idealistic is like being a superhero, its both a blessing and a curse! 

谢乔是个理想主义者,虽然后来经历了许多挫折,但这种经历似乎是成长的必修课。关晓彤总结道:“不管怎样,理想主义者才是最幸福的啊!因为他们总是像超级英雄一样神奇,同时也会经历各种曲折。”

Being in your 20s is like being in a funhouse, with lots of small challenges and setbacks along the way. 

关晓彤说:“20多岁的人总会遇到一些小困惑和小挫折,因为我们的眼界还比较狭窄,经历还比较少,所以会做出一些错误的选择。当然,这些挫折也不是坏事,但它会让我们开始担心起很多事情,慢慢地变得不那么勇敢了,开始失去勇气。”

But remember, like the funhouse, its all part of the ride! 

不过,关晓彤也提醒大家,20多岁就像是坐在游乐场的鬼屋,会遇到许多小挑战和小障碍。不管怎样,都要保持豁达的心态,因为这些都是成长的必经之路!

Feeling lost and indecisive in your 20s? No problem, embrace the chaos and take risks! 

Wondering how to break free from the cycle of overthinking? Well, according to Xiao-tong, its all about experimenting with new ideas and approaches.

Just ask yourself: “Am I sticking to my old ways or am I willing to take a leap of faith?”

Of course, its impossible to have everything figured out in your 20s. But thats exactly why being young is such an exciting journey! With so many new possibilities and experiences just waiting to be explored, why waste time overthinking and regretting?

So go ahead, embrace the chaos and live life to the fullest!

So youre in your 20s, huh? Dont worry if others think youre younger than you actually are, embrace your emotional maturity! 

According to Xiao-tong, people often mistake her for being younger than she is because of her previous roles as a “daddys girl” in TV dramas. But dont let anyone fool you, shes got it all sorted out!

“When faced with a problem, I dont need anyone to hold my hand or give me a pat on the back. I prefer to tackle things logically and methodically, without having to rely on anyone elses emotional support.”

Sure, some older folks might still see you as inexperienced and naive, but dont let that bring you down. Remember, youve got plenty of peers who are just as young and talented as you are!

“After all, when we were filming, the entire crew was made up of people born in 1997 or 1998 – from actors to costume designers to lighting technicians. So dont let anyone make you feel like youre too young to handle whatever life throws your way!”

Valentino: When you want to look fancy, but also like youre wearing a giant doily. 

So theres this guy named Shi Hang who asked Xiao-tong to write about tofu. Its a pretty big deal, considering how important tofu is to Chinese culture and all. But instead of writing some long and boring essay, she decided to keep it simple and personal.

“Everyones got something to say about tofu, whether they love it or hate it. So I just wrote about my own experiences with it – all the little ways my family used to prepare it when I was a kid, and how it made me feel.”

According to Shi Hang, Xiao-tong managed to capture the essence of what makes tofu special – its ability to connect people through shared memories and traditions.

“Her writing was so down-to-earth and relatable, but also full of nuance and emotion. Its a rare talent, and one that we should all aspire to.”

Valentino: For when you want to look like youre going to a fancy ball, but also like you might bust a move later. 

So theres this girl named Xiao-tong who loves tofu. Like, seriously loves it.

“When I was a kid, I used to eat tofu all the time – especially when we had hotpot with lamb. Theres just something about that creamy, savory taste that gets my mouth watering,” she wrote in an article for some guy named Shi Hang.

And its not just any tofu, either. Shes got a total soft spot for king soft tofu, the kind with all those little holes that hold the sesame paste so perfectly.

“But wait, theres more!” she exclaimed. “I also love stinky tofu, the kind thats crispy on the outside and gooey on the inside. You slap on some scallions and MSG and put it on a piece of fried bread… I mean, come on. You cant tell me that doesnt sound delicious!”

And thats why you should never underestimate the power of a good soybean curd.

When youre so deep in your book you forget youre famous. 

So theres this girl named Xiao-tong who loves reading. Like, seriously loves it.

Shes been delving into all kinds of wartime literature, including this one book called “Art During the Resistance”. And let me tell you, shes not just skimming through this puppy. Shes reading every single word with the intensity of a thousand suns.

Her friend Shi Hang is impressed, but not surprised. He says some people are like see-through bottles – always trying to show off how much water they have inside. But Xiao-tong? Shes like a thermos. You never know what shes sipping on, but you know its always at the perfect temperature.

“I like people like Xiao-tong,” he says. “Shes living for herself, not to impress anyone else.”

This jewelry will make you shine like the sun, but only if youre ready to dazzle. 

Meet Fred. Hes the Monsieur of Inner Light, which sounds like something youd eat for breakfast. But its actually a fancy jewelry collection called Soleil dOr – or, if youre not into French, “Golden Sun.”

It includes a necklace, earrings, and a ring that will make you feel like a million bucks. Just be warned: if you wear them, people might mistake you for an actual sunbeam.

Pro-tip: you cant escape time, but you can at least be blinged out while it passes you by.

Too busy to waste time but never too busy to slay the game. 

When it comes to time management, actress Guan Xiaotong is all business. She knows that social media can be a black hole of wasted minutes (or hours), so shes making a conscious effort to redirect her focus. Instead of mindlessly scrolling, shes turning to e-books for stimulation.

But thats not all: Xiaotong is also a talented artist! Shes discovered that drawing is the perfect way to pass the time on set, while still being productive. And the best part? Shes drawing her castmates and making them feel special. Talk about killing two birds with one stone – or should we say, slaying two goals with one act.

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In one of the photos, the serious and intimidating manager stands awkwardly with his toes pointed inward, while the naive assistant gazes off into space with a look of wonder. In another, the crew member holds a call sheet that simply reads, “When do we wrap?” This is the truest depiction of the daily struggle of the working class. “Its all about opening yourself up more. Instead of scrolling through your phone in a corner, I now spend more time on set talking to different people and observing their lives. When you open yourself up, youll find that your mindset opens up too, and you can solve problems more effectively.”

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关晓彤表示,随着岁数的增长,她越来越有一种恍然大悟的感觉——原来成长就是一个叫做“关关难过关关过”的游戏!但是她仍然不得不努力地一关一关地往前走。“当然,我也曾想逃避过,但是我很快发现时间是个残酷的限制魔术师,无论你怎么逃,他都会把你抓回来。”告诉我们这句话的时候,关晓彤的眼中闪烁着光芒,就像她即将获取咖啡馆里最后一块蛋糕的表情一样。

别问我“关关难过关关过”是啥意思,问就是你过得太顺心啦!跟我走吧鞋Jimmy Choo

If you ever watched Pretty Woman and wished you could be as fabulous as Julia Roberts, then you need to check out Monsieur Fred Inner Light by FRED. Their “Big Love” ring and necklace from the Pretty Woman collection will make you feel like you just walked out of a Rodeo Drive boutique.

To complete the look, slip on a pair of sleek, nude jumpsuit and “Follow Me” Jimmy Choos. Trust us, youll turn heads and become the envy of any Beverly Hills socialite.

s-style=font-L align-center>关晓彤的时间物语 

(带你深入时空的时尚之旅)

看着这个衣柜我只想说:哇唔~~这些VALENTINO红色亮片半裙是不是粉红豹总是挂在沙发上的那个MAUDE啊?举起你的手,让世界看到你的时尚密码吧,先生们、女士们,别忘了前往我们的时空隧道,感受一下穿越时光的味道哦! 

,如果向后看,满脸是泪,向前看,风景独好。不过,现在我只想跟你们分享一个我最近的面相学心得:脸上长痘痘不一定是因为生活不规律,更可能是因为你的手游戏玩多了!这个真的是太有启发性了,让我们共勉啊~

心吗? 毕竟,当你30多岁之后,你会发现,长大并不是你想象的那么美好。你需要付房租,付账单,要照顾好自己的身体,还要忍受那些烦人的小事,比如:遇到了一只霸占你位子的大蚊子,一只在你脸上跳舞的苍蝇,还有一只不停碰瓷的大傻瓜。但是没有关系,因为当你长大之后,就不会像小时候那么脆弱,你会很坚强很勇敢。所以,不管你30、40、50岁,永远相信美好的事情会发生,即使这只会飞的猪也没事。

当你40岁之后,你会发现,你遇到的烦心事比拟自己的年龄还要老。比如,你的膝关节磨损得像跑了个马拉松,但你其实只是爬了一座小山丘;你的记忆力正在休假,但你参加的活动在增加;你的情绪变化像钟摆一样不稳定,但你的地位和承诺却越来越多。但是!这都不要紧,因为你已经学会了如何面对问题。你的修养和智慧比以前更老练,你会在面对困难时振作精神,不再像过去那样害怕搞砸一切,因为你知道:上马自有功成日,不怕路长只怕志短。所以,不管你多少岁,都要保持自信,保持勇气,因为美好的生活还在向你招手,而我们不用愁怀太多,因为不能太较真,不然谁都无法忍受人生这么凄凉。

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